Starting Over After My Sweetheart Went To Heaven

This page is a tribute to the 😍 of my life “Wan” who suffered a stroke and passed away just before Christmas 2019. It’s tough starting over looking for love at this age, I’m 68. So I’m not really sure where life will lead me. God please guide me as I write this possibly last chapter in my life’s story.

wan cozumel 2019

As it’s often said – when your time is up – it’s up – and you leave this earth. My sweetheart Wan suffered a stroke Sunday and was rushed to the ER. A brain embolism put her in a coma. She was brain-dead and taken off the ventilator. Thought we would grow older and be together forever.

She is a Christian from Thailand and U.S. Citizen. Republican AND a Trump Supporter! 💕

Her loss came while she was at Nexus Thai Church in Bradenton FL. Paramedics got there quick but the damage was already done. A brain bleed from an Asian disease called MoyaMoya which is clotting of the main artery’s in the brain. New paths grew to deliver the blood where it was needed.

From what the neurosurgeon told me, one of those vessels burst flooding the brain with blood. They tried inserting a tube to drain the blood but it soon clotted. The large volume of blood squeezed her brain causing it to die at only 63 years young. She was kind and considerate toward everyone. 😥

Wan me in Cozumel MX 2019

She has traveled the world. This photo was taken in Norway 2012. I’m feeling numb inside but trying to stay focused. She is the best most loving caring woman i ever met.

Wan Norway 2012
This photo was taken in Norway 2012.

Wan’s trip to Italy in 2011

Wan Italy 2012
Wan’s trip to Italy in 2011

Wan in Las-Vegas 2014 after attending bible study camp with Dr. Arnut Pathong

WEan Las Vegas with Dr. Arnut Pathong
Wan in Las-Vegas 2014 after attending bible study camp with Dr. Arnut Pathong

Our trip to Thailand at Grand Pointveiw Hotel Bangkok. Dec.2013

Wan me Thailand 2013
Our trip to Thailand at Grand Pointveiw Hotel Bangkok. Dec.2013

Our first date in 2008 on Clearwater Beach FL after meting on match.com. She is the 2nd love i have lost. My mind is drifting with thoughts of my wife who passed in early 2008.

Wan at Clearwater Beach our 1st date 2008
Our first date in 2008 on Clearwater Beach FL after meting on match.com

Wan with her mom and 3 brothers taken in Bangkok Thailand 2005

Wan mom and three brothers Thailand 2005
Wan with her mom and 3 brothers taken in Bangkok Thailand 2005

Undated photo of Wan ‘the business lady’ with her dog, mom, and unknown family friend

Wan mom family friend Thailand
Undated photo of Wan ‘the business lady’ with her dog, mom, and unknown family friend

Wan when she was young in Thailand with her dog and motorcycle. She was so beautiful and will be forever beautiful in my eyes. So sad your gone. I will always love you!

Wan young dog motorcycle Thailand
Wan when she was young in Thailand with her dog and motorcycle.

Wan with her oldest brother at the alligator farm Bangkok TH 2013

Wan oldest brother Alligator Farm Thailand 2013
Wan with her oldest brother at the alligator farm Bangkok TH 2013

Wan at the captains dinner during last months cruise to Cozumel

Wan captains dinner Cozumel 2019
Wan at the captains dinner during last months cruise to Cozumel

Not sure when this professional photo was taken but it captures her beauty so well!

Wan lovely professional photo
Not sure when this professional photo was taken but it captures her beauty so well!

Our last vacation together 11/2019 😥 cruise to Cozumel Mexico.

Our last vacation together 11/2019 😥 cruise to Cozumel Mexico.

It was Wans goal to live in America and become a U.S. Citizen which she achieved in 2008. She loved America but was disappointed with politics and political parties fighting. 🙁

It was Wans goal to live in America and become a U.S. Citizen which she achieved in 2008.
wan lynch memorial
Facebook post from me 02/11/20. Wan’s user profile is memorialized here.

God has called her home and has other plans for both of us. I’m really torn up over her going to be with the lord, but she’s in peace now. This blog is also about my life, that’s why this post is here. If you can’t say something nice, don’t bother commenting. Forever rest in peace my love! 💘

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